Identity Crisis

Attention: Our blog is currently undergoing an identity crisis. I can't find a blog background that seems to fit our family. I want something cute, but not busy - not busy, but not boring either. I've checked out cutestblogontheblock.com and aquapoppy.com and even this random site called blingontheblog.com, but I haven't found "the one." I kinda feel like I'm wedding dress shopping again and haven't found Karyl Leavitt's basement yet with the English lace gown. Any ideas from family or friends?